So my wife just drove home from work in the middle of her shift and started to cry when she got here. She said there was no way to fix what happened and that she was so sorry. My first thought was that she had been laid off or fired. Instead she told me this story...
There's a guy at work, (we'll call him John as she won't tell me his name) that she talks to now and then and although they don't work in the same department, when they see each other they hug and say hi. They started to e-mail one another and it started off innocently enough. John asked her out to lunch several times and she often declined as she was too busy. Finally after some time, she did go out to lunch with him.
The e-mails continued and progressively turned more and more personal. She said she said a lot of "stupid stuff." And he would respond back with more "stuff" and back and forth, etc. When I pressed her on what "stupid stuff" meant she wouldn't tell me exactly what was said.
So apparently John and his wife have been having marital problems. John's wife has been snooping through his phone and e-mail and allegedly found incriminating text messages and e-mails. Yesterday, the wife opened up an e-mail account with our house address as a username. She proceeded to send my wife multiple e-mails detailing how she knows what they're up to, and she's going to tell me what's going on, and F U etc etc. The wife plans on bringing a printout of all the e-mails to me to prove what is going on...
I really don't know exactly how to react to all of this. My wife says she never "did" anything with John but she continues to tell me how sorry she is. I asked to see her texts but she won't show me. There have been several other clues over the last year plus that might indicate infidelity, or they might indicate that I'm paranoid.
I guess I'll wait to see what happens??? Either John's wife shows up with the e-mails or she burns my house down in retaliation.
Sorry for the lengthy rant.
There's a guy at work, (we'll call him John as she won't tell me his name) that she talks to now and then and although they don't work in the same department, when they see each other they hug and say hi. They started to e-mail one another and it started off innocently enough. John asked her out to lunch several times and she often declined as she was too busy. Finally after some time, she did go out to lunch with him.
The e-mails continued and progressively turned more and more personal. She said she said a lot of "stupid stuff." And he would respond back with more "stuff" and back and forth, etc. When I pressed her on what "stupid stuff" meant she wouldn't tell me exactly what was said.
So apparently John and his wife have been having marital problems. John's wife has been snooping through his phone and e-mail and allegedly found incriminating text messages and e-mails. Yesterday, the wife opened up an e-mail account with our house address as a username. She proceeded to send my wife multiple e-mails detailing how she knows what they're up to, and she's going to tell me what's going on, and F U etc etc. The wife plans on bringing a printout of all the e-mails to me to prove what is going on...
I really don't know exactly how to react to all of this. My wife says she never "did" anything with John but she continues to tell me how sorry she is. I asked to see her texts but she won't show me. There have been several other clues over the last year plus that might indicate infidelity, or they might indicate that I'm paranoid.
I guess I'll wait to see what happens??? Either John's wife shows up with the e-mails or she burns my house down in retaliation.
Sorry for the lengthy rant.