It doesn't make sense to us either. He says the dynamics of the things they have, like house, toys, land and so on., she pays the bills, as all extra is up to her where is spent! They both make good money with a house payment under $1000 a month. They live paycheck to paycheck and I do his math. Should have at least $4000 a month left over after bills, food and such. Again, we don't get it!Makes no sense too me. Why stay?