Not to completely disagree with you, but sometimes it can feel like that. Sex is a really important part of a happy marriage (for most people, there are some couples who are fine without sex, or very little sex but they are the minority), but if you are the only one working on it, it can definately feel like a tedious and thankless job.I often see comments by both men and women who feel put upon - that they are carrying the bulk of the sexual burden in spicing it up etc. I can understand that - but let me also say that there are worse things than having such a hobby. As if figuring out how to shake things up tonight is a tedious and thankless job.
Just wanted to say thanks. I am one of those saying they carry the bulk. But the PB&J gives me an idea .... we do have a jar of fluffernutter in the fridge.I often see comments by both men and women who feel put upon - that they are carrying the bulk of the sexual burden in spicing it up etc. I can understand that - but let me also say that there are worse things than having such a hobby. As if figuring out how to shake things up tonight is a tedious and thankless job.
Yeah - the old 'peanut butter and jelly sandwich every day for your entire life' analogy is apt - but dont let it get to you. 'Crunchy' peanut butter tonight baby! And with HONEY instead of apricot preserves - c'moverhere hunny.
Sorry. Me and math are casual friends. We've known each other since he was 11 and I 12, then boyfriend/girlfriend at 12/13.You've been together since age 11? Wow.
H 46
Me 43
Married 24 years. Have had some hurdles along the way..
3 kids still home, 15-20. They have an impact on our sex life as they are home all of the time & we have to be quiet & can't really just sneak off
Pah! doesn't stop us, they know we do it and yes it grosses them out that people SO OLD can still be doing it.
Recently, wife and I had gone to bed early and were having one of our bounce around the bedroom long sessions when my wife received a text. Later, when we had finished my wife checked her text, my youngest had returned home while we were otherwise engaged and sent "I can hear you you know"
Compact house with thin walls!
H works from home, I work part time out of the house & part time with him at home.
Frequency - at least every second day, the break is usually for H to recover (these old men). During my period, I will give him 1 or 2 bjs or hjs.
Oi less of your condescending attitude to us old fellers thank you.
Even when we were at our worst & fighting like cats & dogs, sex was still at least twice a week. (No wonder we have 5 kids). When we were separated 12 years ago we still met for sex.