How often do you check your partner's accounts?

Never

Whenever I am feeling insecure. He leaves all his crap logged in though lol

I don't have a regular pattern for checking his account. It's mostly if I need to because I know someone we know is emailing him or if he asked me to check his email for him. I ask him to check my email when I'm too busy or feeling too lazy to check it myself. It's not like we check the email accounts because we're distrustful of each other. We check each other's accounts mostly to help.

I don't.
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Tikii said:

I don't.
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Aw you a BS or a WS?

Never

NextTimeAround said:

Aw you a BS or a WS?

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A what? Unfamiliar with those acronyms.
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BS = Betrayed Spouse
WS = Wayward Spouse

Tikii said:

A what? Unfamiliar with those acronyms.
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Are you on this message board because you cheated on your partner or because you are dealing with a cheating partner?

NextTimeAround said:

Are you on this message board because you cheated on your partner or because you are dealing with a cheating partner?

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Neither, I'm in a very happy marriage.
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Tikii said:

Neither, I'm in a very happy marriage.
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Same here. I'm in a good marriage. I assume this question is intended for people who haven't experienced (and hope never to!) infidelity.

For a while I had his Yahoo account open on my computer as we share a groupon account. but now I'm locked out. I'm wondering if he did that or if Yahoo naturally does that.

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Yahoo does it automatically after a while. A few weeks if if remember correctly. Don't know if that was it in your case.

I think only once in the last 13 years. It started off checking up on my oldest daughter and everything was open.

I've seen him read my messages to my friends before. I really don't care about it.

Almost never. But for some reason, it helps me to know I can check if I feel the need.

My husband hasn't cheated, but he used to lie; because of the lies, I triggered as though I was being cheated on and I bring these insecurities of cheating from other relationships.

The transparency really helps.

I used to never check my wifes email, until 5 months ago when she randomly changed her email password. Now I check it everyday.