How many times are you turned down after initiating sex?

BIL310 said:

I know the results will vary for this but just curious to see how other couples rate.

In my situation:

I’m Male 42, Wife is 40 (two kids early teens)

Together for 25 years. Married for 17.

She initiates 1-2 a year. I probably get turned down 6 out of 10 times I initiate.

Sex usually 2-4 times a month.

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2-4 time a month… what a dream!

I’m 20 yrs in, been rejected continually for the entire 20 prob 90% of the time. Wife stresses about EVERYTHING.. prob loses sleep wondering if the sun will rise. Which means she’s never in the mood. Now, I just don’t care, I stay cause I want to live in the same house as my kids. So now I have a female room mate.