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So we agreed to divorce (I'm more on board after I found out about her EA/PA) and I'm wondering, whats appropriate before you start dating again?
In her case, she was kissing another guy she had an emotional connection with the day after she told me we should divorce.
I'm 39 years old, have a decent job and not many friends. At least not many friends I call on a weekly basis. My marriage lasted about 6.5 years.
It's been my experience that the couple of times after a break-up I've dated immediately, it's resulted in a short term relationship - yeah, it's the "fog". However with my first ex-wife (that's another story, but it was short term and we should never have been married), I had met my current wife and started dating her about a month after the ex moved back to her/our home state.
I thought about volunteering some where, but my only free time is weekends and Mondays - and I usually spend most/part of the weekend with my son. Mondays are the morning to myself (errands and house chores) and then afternoon with son to save money for him being at after daycare.
In her case, she was kissing another guy she had an emotional connection with the day after she told me we should divorce.
I'm 39 years old, have a decent job and not many friends. At least not many friends I call on a weekly basis. My marriage lasted about 6.5 years.
It's been my experience that the couple of times after a break-up I've dated immediately, it's resulted in a short term relationship - yeah, it's the "fog". However with my first ex-wife (that's another story, but it was short term and we should never have been married), I had met my current wife and started dating her about a month after the ex moved back to her/our home state.
I thought about volunteering some where, but my only free time is weekends and Mondays - and I usually spend most/part of the weekend with my son. Mondays are the morning to myself (errands and house chores) and then afternoon with son to save money for him being at after daycare.