For those old enough to understand why, you bet 🤣.

 

'Sexy' is in the eye of the beholder. I really liked girls until after I was married, at which time I associated sex with my W. I enjoy scenery. I can be friendly with almost all women. Sexual thoughts? They're about my wife.

I'm sorry for anyone who suffers from ED, especially when younger than 50. If it hits, see a doctor (MD/OD) to make sure you're not suffering from a physical or emotional ailment.

At 81, my wife looks great for her age, but she looked better when she was a kid of 50, She knocked me out when she was 21, and she attracted a lot of attention then. Now, 'great for her age' is just that. Meanwhile, we could do more 30 years ago when we were only 50. I definitely know, because my eyes still work well when I use my glasses.

In the picture I have of her all dolled up at 21, though, she looks overweight by today's standard. By today's standards, the ideal woman as presented by the media are thin and even boyish. Standards are likely to change over the next 30 years.

My advice is: develop some depth. You'll age, and in all likelihood you'll get to a point when the hottest women will laugh at your approaches. Find someone you like and keep your focus on what you like and away from what you don't. Women are responsible for their own orgasms. Men are, too. If you limit your pleasure because your partner isn't an internationally recognized sex symbol, that may very well be on you.