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Hi, found the site very recently upon the bombshell that my marriage is done and she has had enough. I have previously and am now suffering from depression. Not a word i use lightly at all. I have today been to the docs to seek help (did it once before but decided talking and meds werent for me - biggest mistake of my life maybe).
For those interested; http://talkaboutmarriage.com/going-through-divorce-separation/62090-end-things.html#post1252873 is the thread about the seperation.
I wanted to make this thread to try and understand just what she will have been going through living with me. I have realised I have been depressed for pretty much the last two years but for one reason and another refused to accept it or deal with it.
So if your partner sufferers from depression, how hard is it and in what ways. i am becoming convinced most of our issues stem one way or another from my mental state and need to come to terms with what ways this could have been affecting her. I hope this may help me work through my issues.
For those interested; http://talkaboutmarriage.com/going-through-divorce-separation/62090-end-things.html#post1252873 is the thread about the seperation.
I wanted to make this thread to try and understand just what she will have been going through living with me. I have realised I have been depressed for pretty much the last two years but for one reason and another refused to accept it or deal with it.
So if your partner sufferers from depression, how hard is it and in what ways. i am becoming convinced most of our issues stem one way or another from my mental state and need to come to terms with what ways this could have been affecting her. I hope this may help me work through my issues.