i named it that not because i dont know that it takes time... its just.... If any of you have read my previous threads... Obviously, i was and still am SO IN LOVE with my ( now x) yeah i finally left him about 6 months ago. after 5 years, leaving and going back once, after he cheated... he cheated again. so that was that.. i left.. moved out and bought a house. I wanted him for forever. I felt he made his decision when he cheated on me again. I even disconnected his phone and told him i didnt want his new number, that i was letting this go. about 3 weeks into our brake up he sends me a text saying " i still love you....jus sayin" and we have pretty much talked every day since.. now i am seeing him again, once a week or so. He tells me that he wants us back, I MUST BE STUPID. I seriously feel like im an idiot. becuase i Can not tell him NO. I want so badly for him to be telling me the truth. I know, i sound desperate... im really not. i have meet some REALLY GOOD guys in the last 6 months, One of which i really like. but cant seem to fall in love and i know it takes time, and i know that i would have to let go of my x in order to do that. i have all the answers, i know what my problem is, I JUST DONT WANNA let him go. i cant picture my life with out him in it! he tells me the same. If i go back, ill be cheated on again. UGH. im prepared for yall to tell me im stupid. i tell my self that everyday. but when he is laying in my bed i sleep like a baby. when he calls me im happy, im happy doing nothing with him. i dont exactly know what im looking for here.. just wanted to see it "written down" i guess!