STBX will be moving out, probably the week after Christmas, so another 6 weeks or so to go, which will end up being 8-10 weeks of living together after deciding to divorce. On some levels, I want to scream "get the @#$#$ out of my house!", but other times, I figure I can handle it because I've been faking harmony for years. We've got two kids so we have to get along, which hasn't been hard, but it's a balancing act to have just the right amount of harmony and boundary. I have thought about things I want to do in the house -rearrange furniture, paint, etc, but feel like I'm in a holding pattern until he's out. In our case, no OMs or OWs to worry about, as far as I know, although I don't really care anymore. Moving day can't come soon enough for me!