Do not give up.
You guys just need to learn how to argue better and resolve conflict. It seems like you both are trying to accomplish your own goals and nothing gets accomplished and it gets frustrating.
He needs a more supportive approach. More love, more listening. You guys are speaking different languages to each other.
You both need to talk about how you need to work in resolving conflict. So make a plan to reach some advice or books in how to do this. Or maybe seen a therapist for this specific issue.
This is one issue not worth divorcing over. But it does need to be fixed.
I couldn't disagree with this more.
This man does not need a "more supportive approach" with more "love and listening". This advice is as if you are giving coaching lessons to the OP in enabling horrible, unhealthy, immature behaviors.
No, no, and no.
This guy sounds like an *******. No one can make him stop being an ******* but himself. I wonder if there is anything that will make him decide to change his reactions and behaviors. If there isn't, this will be a very unhappy and unhealthy relationship.