My husband re-kindeled a romance with a high school gal he dated twice. We've been married for 11 years. He hasn't seen/heard from her in over 26 years. Anyhow, they met up and made out and had an "emotional" affair - except for the making out part. And they sexted and video chat about inappropriate things for a few months. I found out, we had many loud discussions on the subject, and they're not sexting any more but he insists they're just friends and he wants to keep their friendship going. She is more mushy about their friendship, even though he has told her he wants to save his marriage and doesn't want to have all the extra communications with her. If he sends one email, she sends 4. He will just say hey just seeing how you're doing or something and she gets all wordy and talks about her life, about how much she dislikes her husband, etc and talks about how much she misses their video chats, etc. I hate this woman with every fiber of my being. I have told her several times to back off and leave him and our family alone. She won't. I have their chats printed out and can share them with her husband and grown kids, but I don't see how that would do anything positive. I just want this woman to go crawl under the rock she came from and leave us alone. I know my husband isn't innocent, and we're working through things. I would prefer he just stop communicating with her at all but he does every couple weeks. Mostly I'm sick of it and having trouble re-building trust with their "friendship" continuing - no matter how innocent it is. I'm having trouble coping and really, really want to get rid of her. Please help.