with yourself being alone? I depend too much on the relationship with my wife. When I'm not with her, I want to be. And if not her, than someone else to fill the void.
However, as we are now separated, I want to become truly ok with being alone/by myself. I've always had people around me, never been on my own, per se. When i wasn't married, I had roomates at college. Before college, I lived at home. I've never learned how to be okay on my own without needing interaction with others.
How do you do it. How do you become comfortable with that?
The reason why I ask is I really need to disengage from my wife, and I only have 2 real friends.
The easy answer is get more friends. But that just replaces her with them. I'm asking how do you get comfortable in your own house, by yourself, and not need anyone else to fill a void.
However, as we are now separated, I want to become truly ok with being alone/by myself. I've always had people around me, never been on my own, per se. When i wasn't married, I had roomates at college. Before college, I lived at home. I've never learned how to be okay on my own without needing interaction with others.
How do you do it. How do you become comfortable with that?
The reason why I ask is I really need to disengage from my wife, and I only have 2 real friends.
The easy answer is get more friends. But that just replaces her with them. I'm asking how do you get comfortable in your own house, by yourself, and not need anyone else to fill a void.