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Pretty straightforward question.
I love my wife and she loves me. She enjoys pleasuring me even if she doesn't enjoy the specific act of giving blow jobs. I try to give her direction while she's going down but it doesn't improve much.
She has some serious body-image issues, and she can be very self-conscious about sex. Sometimes I'll hurt her feelings I suggest ways to improve (on the other hand, that might be because I use phrases like "I'm suggesting ways for you to improve" like a dumb-ass).
She's got a hang-up with masturbation, so I don't feel like I can show her what I'd like her to do. And she's got a hang-up with any kind of porn--from Playboy on up--so I don't feel like I can show her instructional videos.
So how do I tell her how I would prefer to give me oral and: A) not hurt her feelings; B) not break her taboos; and C) get what I want?
I love my wife and she loves me. She enjoys pleasuring me even if she doesn't enjoy the specific act of giving blow jobs. I try to give her direction while she's going down but it doesn't improve much.
She has some serious body-image issues, and she can be very self-conscious about sex. Sometimes I'll hurt her feelings I suggest ways to improve (on the other hand, that might be because I use phrases like "I'm suggesting ways for you to improve" like a dumb-ass).
She's got a hang-up with masturbation, so I don't feel like I can show her what I'd like her to do. And she's got a hang-up with any kind of porn--from Playboy on up--so I don't feel like I can show her instructional videos.
So how do I tell her how I would prefer to give me oral and: A) not hurt her feelings; B) not break her taboos; and C) get what I want?