So you've both had full on physical affairs ? I gotta imagine that there is very high emotions between the two of you.
I'd take his comment for what it is and not get hot under the collar about it. He's a very fit person, clearly that's something important to him and something he holds himself to as a standard. He's just extending that standing onto you - his wife.
I know it's popular in the US to dump on anyone who says anything about a woman's weight - but in this case he isn't saying one thing for you and another thing for himself. He's just sharing his own view on how he himself views his fitness and yours.[/QUOTE
I get that. I totally do. But there is a way to do it. It's not about him not telling me about my weight. I am not AT ALL sloppy or even "fat" per say and I am my worst critic. He could've placed his words in some other fashion. When I have had things that I want to tell him that might be sensitive to him, I use tact. There is a saying.. You can be right about what you're saying but wrong for how you say it...