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Guys, i really have an issue that might seem simple on paper but while going through these feelings, i feel so helpless...
So here's the situation...i am madly in love with husband of almost 5 years. He is the best guy i have ever had. Somewhere around my 3rd year of marriage, my ex-boyfriend got out of prison and an army of feelings took me over because he is my first love, my first "everything." i have never cheated on my husband but as much as i fantasize about my ex, i feel like i am. We (ex and i) tried keeping in contact with each other after his release but we started crossing too many boundaries so we only speak when i go back to my hometown. Either way, i really do love my ex, and i don't know how to compartmentalize these feelings i have for him and feel like i am not cheating on my husband.
Someone please help me with these feelings so that i can lift this weight off of my shoulders....i pray and i pray very often concerning this. No full answer has come except to not be selfish, but i dont know how to dismiss them.
My ex and i were like heaven on earth, but my husband and i" relationship was made in heaven...please advise me.
Thanks
So here's the situation...i am madly in love with husband of almost 5 years. He is the best guy i have ever had. Somewhere around my 3rd year of marriage, my ex-boyfriend got out of prison and an army of feelings took me over because he is my first love, my first "everything." i have never cheated on my husband but as much as i fantasize about my ex, i feel like i am. We (ex and i) tried keeping in contact with each other after his release but we started crossing too many boundaries so we only speak when i go back to my hometown. Either way, i really do love my ex, and i don't know how to compartmentalize these feelings i have for him and feel like i am not cheating on my husband.
Someone please help me with these feelings so that i can lift this weight off of my shoulders....i pray and i pray very often concerning this. No full answer has come except to not be selfish, but i dont know how to dismiss them.
My ex and i were like heaven on earth, but my husband and i" relationship was made in heaven...please advise me.
Thanks