I know that im with someone who treats me like crap. We argue and fight then the following day he expects me to be all chirpy again and when im not he says that all i want to do is argue which is incorrect. We live together and i own 90% of all household goods. My family have said that they will help me move (im with them now due to last nights row) but he makes it difficult by playing with my emotions. He called half an hour ago and said 'hi my darling' in a happy voice, i was upset and angry so i hung up. I immediately started to cry and thought to myself, maybe i should just stay i mean, i do love him lots...but i think the problem is that im not feeling loved back and it hurts - so i try and resolve issues with him but this in turn causes more. What do you base staying with someone on? How do you move on from an abusive partner and stay away? This just takes all my energy from me, i dont even have the energy to get out of bed sometimes i just lie their and think, think, think.