Joined
·
280 Posts
I am in a 27 year marriage. My problem is I can't get the attention of my husband. He is constantly doing "things" around the house and at the cottage he works full time and belongs to boards. As time passes I find myself more and more alone. He doesn't want to do anything with me. I ask but he would rather do his "stuff". He makes lists and he gets really anxcious about how much he wants to get done. I don't ask him too do all these things rather he feels a need to. I spend more and more time without him inside the house, out with friends, shopping or at work.
HOW DO I GET HIM TO STOP AND LOOK AND SPEND TIME WITH ME? I have communicated to him that I am feeling more and more alone in this relationship. I don't know what to do!
Doesn't he realize he is ignoring the relationship...i can't go on asking for his attention. He only does what he wants to do...help!
If I just go on doing what I want to do we would never communicate and we would never do anything together...it is always my idea.
HOW DO I GET HIM TO STOP AND LOOK AND SPEND TIME WITH ME? I have communicated to him that I am feeling more and more alone in this relationship. I don't know what to do!
Doesn't he realize he is ignoring the relationship...i can't go on asking for his attention. He only does what he wants to do...help!
If I just go on doing what I want to do we would never communicate and we would never do anything together...it is always my idea.