Been there done that - married 21 years now. I got my mans attention by essentially following the principles in the book the surrendered wife. Don't let the title fool you it's not what you think it's about.
http://www.surrenderedwife.com/care to share the principles of the book? right now doesn't feel like i am in a relationship at all....
Exactly. It all starts by changing what you truly have control over. YOU not him. You have no control over what he does only how you react to him.http://www.surrenderedwife.com/
Really, it's about changing yourself instead of worrying about how to make him change.
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In all honesty that's kinda what happened with me but it was work related. He had to leave me for 3 months and during that time I found my self esteem.I left mine, that got his attention.
Usually accomplished by with the withholding of sex and a verbal barrage of argument and criticism.Testicles. Locate them. Grasp and squeeze. Apply pressure until you get the desired level of attention. Guaranteed to work on your husband and most male mammals.
Dress sexy and tell him how much you need his love...in a playful way.I am in a 27 year marriage. My problem is I can't get the attention of my husband....
I'm sorry you're going through that. It must be very lonely. I would do the stuff around the house with him. You might have fun.I am in a 27 year marriage. My problem is I can't get the attention of my husband. He is constantly doing "things" around the house and at the cottage he works full time and belongs to boards. As time passes I find myself more and more alone. He doesn't want to do anything with me. I ask but he would rather do his "stuff". He makes lists and he gets really anxcious about how much he wants to get done. I don't ask him too do all these things rather he feels a need to. I spend more and more time without him inside the house, out with friends, shopping or at work.
HOW DO I GET HIM TO STOP AND LOOK AND SPEND TIME WITH ME? I have communicated to him that I am feeling more and more alone in this relationship. I don't know what to do!
Doesn't he realize he is ignoring the relationship...i can't go on asking for his attention. He only does what he wants to do...help!
If I just go on doing what I want to do we would never communicate and we would never do anything together...it is always my idea.