Here's my problem, I have a 4 year old that I cannot get to sleep in his own room. The other problem is that I dont think my wife wants him to get out of our bed. A couple of weeks ago I had him sleeping most of the night in his room and it seems like she's ruined all of my work. I think she might be afraid that if he sleeps in his bed, she'll have to thwart my sexual advances every night. He's getting too big though, now he kicks the crap out of me every night. How do I convince my wife and son that we need our space and he needs to sleep by himself.