So long story short, me and the wife are in a dry spell and we are working through it. However I have noticed that when me and her arent vibing, all sexual activity stops. She doesnt need it like I do so its easy for her. Rather than dive into the source of our problems, I want to know from the men who have had long periods of no sex. Its getting to the point to where self release is no longer working and I walk around with crazy thoughts, an erection, and thoughts of other girls all the time. Short of actually cheating, what are men doing to help themselves NOT cheat during times of dryspells?