This is worthy of its own thread and discussion point.. You certainly won’t attract quality men which is why you settled for a weak man like your husband. The only men you attract are players and weaklings.
My wise old school marm mother would refer to this as people being like water who seek their own level.
A low quality, narcissistic, materialistic and self absorbed woman is not going to get a quality man who has self respect and who wants an equal partner to make a home and family with.
As stated above, the men she attracts will be from two camps- the playa’s and ****boys who just want a place to park their schlong for a night or two,,,,, and the pathetic, weaklings so desperate to have a woman around that they will accept whatever poop she flings in their face that she won’t be able to respect or desire.
This applies to men and women egually - to get a quality partner that is a good person, attractive, a good lover and a loyal and faithful partner ,,, one must also be a good person, attractive and competent lover and and a loyal and faithful partner.
Otherwise you get what you are.