I have been married for almost 20 years to my high school sweetheart. We've always been so close, doing everything together and then with our son, who is now 13. Around his 40th birthday, he started showing signs of a mid-life crisis, told me ILYBINILWY, distancing himself big-time. He claims there is no one else, but I do not believe that is true. He left me two months ago. At first, he said that he wanted to talk, see how things went, etc. Then he said he was never coming back. Then he sort of softened up on that a little. Now, he's back to never coming back. He told me he doesn't care about me or how I am dealing with all of this, he doesn't call because he doesn't have to, and he doesn't miss being in our house with us. How is this possible? Even if he was sick of the fighting or even if he has someone else, he could he possibly never miss anything about our time together and our time as family? I am so sad and lonely and everything reminds me of him. How could he feel that way?