I think a chatroom is a great idea. But i think it would only be helpful if its like a group therapy kind of vibe. One persons problems at a time. Which might slow things down. But i still think its a great idea! Posted via Mobile Device
Okay, so contact the mods and forum administrators. I have no issues with a chatroom, but I don't want a free-for-all where anyone can post anything.
Thus, we need someone who can moderate on a regular basis. The other forum I belonged to had specific hours when members could join in on a discussion topic. Reason? This allowed for control over the chat.
We have folks on here who are dealing with the pain of addiction in their partner - be it porn, dope, or booze. We have folks on here who are dealing with the pain of infidelity. We also have plenty of people who have general questions about their marriage just going BLAH.
So how about you pose to the powers-that-be that we have several chat rooms that target specific issues?
Well its mibbit, which means its IRC based. It can be multiple rooms, which is awesome. With a shoutbox we could just integrate that into the forums and it would automatically refresh while we were surfing. In case anyone says anything that catches your attention. I love these forums and I'm okay with them, a few people wanted a chatroom though, so I made one, that's all. I'm out of the chat thing though, but I will pass moderator to anybody willing.