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Its hard work living in the grown up world. You do have plus points. You realise that you need to get serious, sort your life, get responsible. Trust me, some men get to there 40's or 50's even, being carried by there women and never learn to take responsibility. You want to sort your life, where do you begin??

Easy, start at the beginning. Take a small step to wherever. Ditch the computer games, the lazy attitude because that is all it is. Its a mind set, you tell yourself your lazy your gonna live up to that standard. Get some enthusiasm for your life. Get a picture of your daughter, put it beside your bed, look at it every single morning, do it for her.

Find a job, dont play or pretend to yourself, just do it. You seem to be a great at trying, stop that and become pro active. Your life, your choices but if you need a kick up your a** no one cares except you.

Your G/F had realised you cant be relied on, you let not only you down but your family of her plus one down, you want to keep doing that then go right ahead. I dont think you do, I think you want to prove to yourself and them you can achieve but you lack faith in yourself and your ability. Whats the worse that can happen if you try and I mean really try?? Yeh failure which means big LOSER, wrong - it only means that if you give up, if you stop trying. Get you butt off your sofa/seat and move your world, it aint gonna happen without your input and when you feel like pressing the self destruct button stop and ask yourself why? You say there isn't many job options around you, many? you only need one, it doesnt matter if its a rubbish job, its a job so go get just one of the many. When you get one, stick with it, you have a family to support, if they dont need your money do it for your own self respect remember we all need that. You've done the self pity now time to stand up and be counted, just for yourself.

I think you need to sort your life out for yourself. Whilst your focssing on issues with your girlfriend your not looking at your own personal picture which needs your attention, right now. Consentrate on sorting your own life out before you even think about sorting your relationships. If you cant or wont get you right how can you begin to think of getting it right with anyone else..


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WOW!!! to be honest, this morning I thought, not much hope for this guy!! Here you are doing the craziest of things, using your brain and its working!!!

You have figured out a job, Im sure you can figure everything else out. Motivation is all you need. I am sure sure sure, you will succeed. You sound like a man on a mission, this morning your post read full of negativety. You have turned that around, can see the positives and are working towards them, $62 a week isn't a great deal of money and I'm sure you will figure a way to find it.

I think you should consider your options carefully before you decide anything, take your time and figure what you want and what your capable of. You do know what your own limitations are so be honest with yourself. You seem to have found your focus today, hold that tight, when things are tough and they will be, when you think what th f*ck is this all about, remember why your doing this and keep going.

Keep posting and I will keep checking back to see with great interest; all that you can become is within you....


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