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I always found it interesting with my wife and I's sexual dynamics. In the past with other women, I had to guess/experiment, to find out all their buttons. With my wife, she simply won't let me go until she's used me up for her own pleasure completely. If I try to leave before giving her at least one O - she wraps her legs around me and pulls me back to bed.
As such, she has always been brutally honest with my performance, and pushes me to be my best, and me with her. She doesn't get all insecure and think that she can't compare with my exs, she just goes "ok, A doesn't work with him, he likes B, I'll do B" etc etc
Despite our other problems, this is something I don't want us to change. Just curious really though, why is communication when it comes to sex so lacking in so many relationships?
As such, she has always been brutally honest with my performance, and pushes me to be my best, and me with her. She doesn't get all insecure and think that she can't compare with my exs, she just goes "ok, A doesn't work with him, he likes B, I'll do B" etc etc
Despite our other problems, this is something I don't want us to change. Just curious really though, why is communication when it comes to sex so lacking in so many relationships?