Hi. I am so proud of you. Your son sounds like a fine young, principaled man...a reflection of your wonderful parenting as his mother. Try not to think of it as getting through the holidays, but as a new start, a new normal and a better experience without your H in it. Decorate your house like never before. Get friends over for drinks. Let your kids have friends over...fill your life and home with people. You are so strong and your joy of living will shine and reflect on your kids. Smile...put body glitter on your tits secretly..something stupid to keep you in the festive spirit.
You and your kids deserve happiness and I know you will miss your eldest son terribly, but he needs to do this and you need to let him go, metaphorically speaking, to grow as a man and find himself.
Your holidays will be better than ever, but you need to make that happen. Show yourself how great you are.
You and your kids deserve happiness and I know you will miss your eldest son terribly, but he needs to do this and you need to let him go, metaphorically speaking, to grow as a man and find himself.
Your holidays will be better than ever, but you need to make that happen. Show yourself how great you are.