Three boys at home. She’s seeing someone. Home life is toxic and I left last night. Thinking about Checking myself in due to idiations. Struggling to find hope.
Ted, I’m really sorry you’re here and going through this.
They are 13 5 and 4. The feelings of hopelessness come and go, but the environment I just left is toxicHow old are your sons man? As far as the cheating spouse goes , you have come to the right place. Lots of people on here have re-married and gone on to live much happier lives. They are also willing to help. Definitely think all about those 3 boys and how much they will need you.
Your boys need a role model now more than ever.They are 13 5 and 4. The feelings of hopelessness come and go, but the environment I just left is toxic
Ted Im so sorry you are here but you have definitely come to a good place. Keep posting, the folks here are keen to help.
You are grieving the IMAGE you had of her -- not her. You are seeing your memories being tarnished by realizing who she REALLY is. It's ok to grieve that. BUT you need to realize (and I think you do), that image was NEVER real -- she was just good at hiding who she really IS.How can I still see her and miss her even after all she has done?