I've been married to my one and only husband for 19 years & we have two teenage boys. My husband is a handful, he lies for no reason, speaks negatively about me behind my back so I will have less friends because he doesn't want me paying attention to anybody but him, he puts on a macho veneer but he is very very insecure. Right now my biggest problem is he is losing touch with reality and not thinking logically, I'm sure this is because of his bipolar disorder. He is very very jealous of my best friend and he gets mad when she calls me, and stays mad. I keep waiting for him to snap out of it but he is losing it. I'm very sad about the whole thing.