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G'day,
Can someone please help me out. I go away a lot with work. On my last trip away my wife decided to seperate from me and moved out of the house before I came home. She took our two children with her and is now living 30km away. She wants to have a friendly relationship with me but at the same time has left me with two morgatages, all of the bills and the payments for her car. I love here to death and will do anything to get her back but I feel that she does not want that. I asked her if there was any chance of getting back together and she will only tell me that she doesn't know what the future holds and she can't prommise anything. Obviously there are reasons behind her leaving and we have been seeing a psych off and on. I have tried to make her happy but nothing I do seems to work. She says that she still cares for me but i'm not so sure. I can't take this. I know there is no quick fix but has anyone got some guidance?
Toffer did give you some great advice.

Take this time to really think about how things got this bad. How many times did your wife try to talk to you and tell you she wasn't happy. How many times you may have not taken her conversations about the state of your relationship seriously. How many times she asked you to do things for her to help her out or make her feel important to you. Think about all of these things and then try and understand that sometimes when words no longer work or seem to make any impact, action is the next step. She's taken action and now you're wide awake aren't you? You're ready to hear anything she has to say, right?

I hope you can get to some resolution, but in the meantime, you need to take care of yourself. Maybe she'll be willing to try one more time, and maybe she won't. Only time will tell.
 
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