We have been together for 14 years and about 1.5 married. I do not have to lift a finger at home unless I wish. That aside, something is very wrong.
About 3 years ago she really got on a bad trip about getting married. I even thought she was starting to cheat on me. I came home early once and when I walked into the room she was shocked and frantically stashed the lap top. Eventually she told me that it was an old friend who lives in a far away state that aside from the every now and then smooth line was harmless. I believe her but never thought she would lie to me, due to the fact that I had asked her before if she chatted or text with any men. And once, I got home at 7am, and was about to engage in some early morning sex, when her cell rang, I made her answer, and she was saying wrong number but she was shaking in her boots. Lies all lies. She finally gave me a lame story about someone who must have got her number from elsewhere. Lol
OK. My eyes are open, but I'm still in it. Things get better, I buy in with the "we've been together so long that it's embarrassing to not be married deal" and we do. All is good right?
Well, all of a sudden were at little leagu practices and every guy is always staring at me, but they look away when I look. Hmm. A day or two later, I realize that my much taller wife is always right behing me. I'm figuring something is going on behind my back. Where ever we go this is happening so I put it to the test.
I see some guys leaning on a car while on vacate in NY, when we get close she does her patented slow down which leaves me ahead. This time, there was a glass window I saw across from them which made me go that way. I see in the mirror her ogling them even to the point of lowering her glasses. I didn't say anything Thea's we were with the kids but later, of course she denies all.
This continues to happen. I thought she must be cheating.
She was also mysteriously never at her desk at work and always had 4 hour meetings. Ood for the low girl on the totem. So after much arguing we did a
POLYGRAPH!
She passes with flying colors!
But I know she is always looking at or communicating with men whenever she is behind me.
AND I AM NOT CRAZY!
On occasion a guy or two have even come up to her and I'm like WTF! I've even noticed her hide her wedding hand in her pocket at times.
Of course she denies all this.
Why would she do this if she's not cheating. She goes no where. But she is extra ordinarily beautiful.
I've also heard her son telling her how he slows down to watch other chicks, while his gf is oblivious. So I'm pretty sure she bought into that. I just want to know why. Sex is great, she cums at least twice when it's good. And if she's not in the mood and just pleases me she doesn't fake.
What is her motivation for doing this to me? What should I do? Im almost to the point of turning around and smacking her!
HELP!
About 3 years ago she really got on a bad trip about getting married. I even thought she was starting to cheat on me. I came home early once and when I walked into the room she was shocked and frantically stashed the lap top. Eventually she told me that it was an old friend who lives in a far away state that aside from the every now and then smooth line was harmless. I believe her but never thought she would lie to me, due to the fact that I had asked her before if she chatted or text with any men. And once, I got home at 7am, and was about to engage in some early morning sex, when her cell rang, I made her answer, and she was saying wrong number but she was shaking in her boots. Lies all lies. She finally gave me a lame story about someone who must have got her number from elsewhere. Lol
OK. My eyes are open, but I'm still in it. Things get better, I buy in with the "we've been together so long that it's embarrassing to not be married deal" and we do. All is good right?
Well, all of a sudden were at little leagu practices and every guy is always staring at me, but they look away when I look. Hmm. A day or two later, I realize that my much taller wife is always right behing me. I'm figuring something is going on behind my back. Where ever we go this is happening so I put it to the test.
I see some guys leaning on a car while on vacate in NY, when we get close she does her patented slow down which leaves me ahead. This time, there was a glass window I saw across from them which made me go that way. I see in the mirror her ogling them even to the point of lowering her glasses. I didn't say anything Thea's we were with the kids but later, of course she denies all.
This continues to happen. I thought she must be cheating.
She was also mysteriously never at her desk at work and always had 4 hour meetings. Ood for the low girl on the totem. So after much arguing we did a
POLYGRAPH!
She passes with flying colors!
But I know she is always looking at or communicating with men whenever she is behind me.
AND I AM NOT CRAZY!
On occasion a guy or two have even come up to her and I'm like WTF! I've even noticed her hide her wedding hand in her pocket at times.
Of course she denies all this.
Why would she do this if she's not cheating. She goes no where. But she is extra ordinarily beautiful.
I've also heard her son telling her how he slows down to watch other chicks, while his gf is oblivious. So I'm pretty sure she bought into that. I just want to know why. Sex is great, she cums at least twice when it's good. And if she's not in the mood and just pleases me she doesn't fake.
What is her motivation for doing this to me? What should I do? Im almost to the point of turning around and smacking her!
HELP!