Look at it this way. Would you take on schizophrenia if he were not attached?
Some diseases are best left alone, if you were without kids, I'd say help your dh, but you are not alone. You have kids you need to be the adult for. You cannot save him or fix him and if you try, your kids may lose the only adult they have who can stay afloat.
Save yourself and your kids. Your kids need you more than he does. It isn't going to be easy because he will try to be in your life and mess with you. I suggest moving far away and suspending contact if possible.
Some diseases are best left alone, if you were without kids, I'd say help your dh, but you are not alone. You have kids you need to be the adult for. You cannot save him or fix him and if you try, your kids may lose the only adult they have who can stay afloat.
Save yourself and your kids. Your kids need you more than he does. It isn't going to be easy because he will try to be in your life and mess with you. I suggest moving far away and suspending contact if possible.
