I don't know what to do. My husband acts like he hates me. When I tell him I need him to treat me with love or I have to leave, he blames me or tells me "fine then, leave". He won't change. When I cry, he says, "we're just stressed out", which is true, then, the next day he treats me the same. I have 2 kids, no drivers liscence. He is not excited about life anymore. He gives me silent treatments, blame shifts, passive aggressive. I am unable to care for my kids alone with no drivers liscence. What should I do? Please, I need advice. I have an autistic son and no friends or family to help. I then say I have looked at apartments and he doesnt seem to care. A while ago he said he doesnt love me. Then said he was stressed out. I havent felt the same since then. We need counsiling and there is no babysitter. What do I say to him? Do I wait for him to treat me more passively aggressive or to actually leave, since I have no way out? PLease somebody, I am puking and crying. I can't get a straight answer out of him.