I met this divorcee with two kid online two year ago, he was nice, loving and helpful when visted me in my country couple of times and i visted him once. I have move to settle with with him and it few month now.This guy is so lazy and I have been doing the chores in the house cleaning and tiding up the house all the time and it worse when its his week to have the kids. He will cook and eat and leave the pot and plates on the table. He will mess up the kitchen and living room. not forget his dogs that also mess up with mud in the house and so on. Every thing about his kid are priorty. Self hygniene is also negative, does not brush the teeth and dont not change clothes after work niether in the morning, unless he takes a shower and thats 2 or 3 times in a week....i feel less attracted to him and so i been cheating on him with a new man who want to marry me and seem to repect my emotional physical and fiancial need ... My question is how do i confront this guy with breakup without hurting him and the kids......?