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Guys I need some help. I have been married to my husband for almost 5 years and I have never had an orgasm with him. Ever. I have not hid this from my husband, but I rarely bring it up. On the rare occasion that I do bring it up he says that he has tried to give me an orgasm and that there is something wrong with me because he has been able to give other women orgasms before we were married.
I have no problem giving myself an orgasm I don't think that is the case. I should also say I am attracted to my husband and do enjoy making love, but the lack of an orgasm is bothering me. I rarely deny him sex even though he does not satisfy me. I one time made the mistake of trying to give my self an orgasm after he was done. This really annoyed and insulted him and I have never done it again.
The biggest problem is my husband does not believe in foreplay at all. After 5 years though, I am getting tired and my desire to make love is really low now.
Guys how can I tell my husband that I am not sexually satisfied without killing his ego?
I have no problem giving myself an orgasm I don't think that is the case. I should also say I am attracted to my husband and do enjoy making love, but the lack of an orgasm is bothering me. I rarely deny him sex even though he does not satisfy me. I one time made the mistake of trying to give my self an orgasm after he was done. This really annoyed and insulted him and I have never done it again.
The biggest problem is my husband does not believe in foreplay at all. After 5 years though, I am getting tired and my desire to make love is really low now.
Guys how can I tell my husband that I am not sexually satisfied without killing his ego?