I am not having luck on my other site, so I am posting this here. I need help with how to bestow my forgiveness on my FWH. He has shown complete remorse, no contact, show his love in all the little ways, tell me he loves despite the weight gain, and makes sure we are in bed together each night. I want to give him and myself the gift of forgiveness. He hates talking about the affair, I suspect that it makes him feel horrible. How shoud I do this?