I have posted here before about my marriage with my husband, and things have been going well... Well that was until about 4 hours ago.
Anyway my husband went away Saturday to stay at a mates house in Melbourne (3 hours away). Anyway he went to Melbourne spent lots of $$$ we don't have, went to the casino with his mates and so fourth. Anyway I was pissed that he spent so much money on himself when chrissy is coming up. And he only rang us (kids n I once or twice I rang the other times) anyway he comes home today, tired so when he walked in the door I made him his fav coffee then made him breaks. Later today he wanted to have sex I said I couldn't as its that time of month he then goes on to say you should have told me I wouldn't have come home.... (Jokingly I think) anyway I laid down in bed later and he was next to me he then goes on to ask me if I slept with anyone while he was away I was shocked and said NO! He then goes on to say I am acting guilty.... He then goes on about "my boyfriend" and says he doesn't want to go to his parents house anymore so I take the kids. I was really upset n broke down when I got to I laws n told them what was said n my mil came round to talk to my husband anyway he said everything was fine n was only joking.
I came home n he told me not to talk to him cos he doesn't want to hurt me and that he doesn't want to talk to me anymore n called me a drama queen. And pretty much called me more names while I was trying to explain that he hurt me cos he would think that. He then got up and went to bed.
I am now sitting here in tears wondering what I should do.... I have never cheated on him and won't, I spent the weekend with our children and our friends....
I feel so hurt why is he doing this to me, I have been trying to work on this marriage and I thought it was working! But obviously not
Tonight I honesty just wanted to die.... Help please
Guys help me understand what's going on.....