Just to give you guys a lil background, we are in our 40's, and married 7 years with 2 children at home. Hubby has always been the more sexual one. But I find myself lately feeling annoyed at his methods of sexual attention. Every single day he asks for sex or some form of sexual attention. But he asks in the form of groping me(sticking his hands down my pants, grabbing my boobs) or with vulgar talk. Even with our kids nearby he is this way(we live in a small apartment)I'm usually open to sex 2-3 a week but never everyday! If when we have sex he will literally ask when can he get it again or the very next day complain like it's been months when it's only been 24 hours! Lastly, he is a smoker which is a major turn off. Yes, he was a smoker when we met but he smokes way more now(like every few hours). Any advice on how to approach this with him? Am I the one with a problem here?