I am from the US and do not know how Singapore law works but is there a way that if you leave him now that he would still be responcible for paying for the childrens care.Hi, I am a chinese lady, age 42 from Singapore. I am very sad, my husband does not treat me bad but also not very good at all. He is a very egoistic person, he is too self centred of himself. He never care for my feelings and always always take me forgranted. I don't know why I must suffer all this ****s from him.
I feel like leaving him it is just a matter of time. But. now, i must care more for my children as they are still in their teens.
It might be a cultural thing more than anything else, but in the western countries some men still feel this is a sign of weakness which they are taught from an early age that they can not show.Sometimes I ponder, why my husband can be so heartless, he does not seems to have any feeling for me, when he sees me sad and crying he does not bother to console me, talk to me, or even at least understand that our marriage really need help.