Keep reading, he has owned his faults and his drinking. He just wrote out why he climbed into a bottle. Giving reasons is not the same as “Making.”This comes down to two.people who can't take responsibility. She is probably cheating and justifying it, blameshifting. You are definitely not taking ownership of your drinking. No one can MAKE you drink or MAKE you an alcoholic, just like no one can MAKE her cheat.