It sounds like you need a support system... you know, people who care about you and who you can talk to. Do you have any family or female friends around you? If so, what do they say about all this?Please dear member don't think bad about me...I am seriously confused and I am completely alone to face all these issues and stress
Yes, start fresh, from some new beginning.Kick them both out of your life.
We've already told you how you chose him - a childhood where you weren't loved and taught to love yourself.Just looking at him I feel nausea; how is it possible that I choose this person?? How ??
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do not marry him. You need to get yourself together first before letting ANYONE else into your life. YOU are worth more than having some guy treat you like this. Again, what are YOU getting out of this relationship? STOP being an ATM, a cab driver, and a Mommy for this guy. He is not mature enough to be in a relationship with you, much less a marriage.I reflected on the situation. I feel so sad and disappointed from my boyfriend that sometimes I truly feel to tell him to stay away from me, but after I feel the pressure of this organized marriage, like I have a rope around my neck and if I try to escape it will be more tight.
I hope you realize that if you GO THROUGH with this marriage, the rope will be completely closed around your neck. This IS NOT a good relationship for you. Getting out NOW will save you $$ and grief. You cannot let others, or fear of what they will think, rule your life. It is YOUR life, not his family, not his, not your ex's, etc.. You need to do what is right for YOU, and from what you are writing here, this really is NOT a good relationship for you. He is taking advantage of your good nature -- do NOT allow this anymore. A man has to be responsible -- he is not a man -- he is a child.
Just now he wrote me telling me to buy this and that and to pick him up this time and drop him that time...seriously like I am his employee.
Now he is complaining that I will have some days of vacation and me I told him that I am also tired, I wake up at 4 am every morning and after I come back at 6 PM, after this cleaning, washing, ironing, cooking and at 12 am need to go pick him up and after only four hours I need to get up..it is tiring and especially with him that seems all for granted.
What exactly does HE do in your relationship? What are YOU getting out of this?
With my ex I am like keep on thinking of him, I miss him a lot , i miss all our moments, like i delete all the bad time.
FORCE yourself to remember the bad stuff -- if you don't you are doomed to repeat it. REMEMBER why you are not with him. LEARN the lesson -- REALLY learn it so that you can grow and be a better you.
Now my friend that i spoke in the previous message, invite me to go out. I would like to go but i feel bad cause i cannot say anything to my boyfriend and i feel guilty...i should be his wife soon...how? But this guy,my friend is so special, seriously, attentive, caring, nice, kind, gentle, unique...
DO NOT do this -- you are with your boyfriend. Do NOT become a cheater. Break up with your boyfriend/fiance first before going out with anyone else (and even then, you need to get your self-esteem up so that other guys can't treat you like this).
Confusion.. I feel too much pressure from my boyfriend and his Family, like we are already married. His Family keeps on asking when we got married
Ask them WHEN IS HE going to pay for something? Tell them he is irresponsible and doesn't treat you well -- why would you want to marry him?
STOP letting them make you feel guilty when in all fairness it is HIS fault, not yours. THEY just want to pawn him off on you so that he becomes YOUR problem and not theirs.
, they are sure we are already married and they ask for baby....