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Well, not sure what else to say. Lol. New here. Married almost 20 years but together longer. Big brood of kids. Sexless marriage. Have tried MC and sex therapy to no avail. Feel like I’m losing my mind. No desire to disrupt the family but can’t spend the next 40 or so years like this. Hoping to find some support here. Thanks.
 

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So sorry. Guess sex must have stopped after the brood were born--not unusual. That MC and sex therapy--y'all have made an effort--have not helped is so sad and frustrating.

What do you want to happen?
 

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Well, not sure what else to say. Lol. New here. Married almost 20 years but together longer. Big brood of kids. Sexless marriage. Have tried MC and sex therapy to no avail. Feel like I’m losing my mind. No desire to disrupt the family but can’t spend the next 40 or so years like this. Hoping to find some support here. Thanks.
Know you have control of this.
You can turn this around.
Read "The Rational Male" "No More Mr. Nice Guy" "Married Man's Sex Life Primer"

First step KNOW your wife's cycle, if she still has one. Get an app on your phone and follow it. Ovulation days are very good to know.

These are some of the books I read.
 

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Well, not sure what else to say. Lol. New here. Married almost 20 years but together longer. Big brood of kids. Sexless marriage.
Not for nuthin', but your first order of business should probably be a vasectomy. It sounds like your poor wife has basically spent her whole adult life being a brood mare. :(
 

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Welcome. We need more information to give better opinions. What we have are opinions, lots of them, based on lots of reading about different people's marriages.

How many children and what is the age span? How many years ago did things drop off in the bedroom?

What was covered in MC? What specifically was your spouse's response to the recommendations?
 
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