I will try to bring some sense into her on that. as a matter of fact she's received a complaint from the school already about our 11 years old. The school wants to talk to her on Monday they said in the letter that the kid is very angry and is turning violent ever since he came back from the Thanksgiving break. and they said they would like to know what is going on out of school because it is affecting the kid. She shared the letter with me and said she's not going to show up. All i said was ok perhaps not a good idea but i think and i know it's the situation that's starting to take a toll on the kid already because he's older and realizes his mom exposed him to someone else who is not his dad and it is wrong and she doesn't care but instead get angry at him for telling me the truth. It is very very painful for me to witness it all.