I need help! My husband of 5 years has cheated on me, we have always had an amazing marriage. Little fights nothing major ever. He recently started working in Alaska where he goes for two weeks and then hes home for two weeks. I have felt like it has brought us closer being away from each other for 2 weeks at a time. Two weeks ago when he got in to Alaska his flight was canceled and all the guys had to stay in the hotel a night instead of flying directly to the mine site like usual, they all went out drinking and he ended up bringing a girl back to his hotel room and having sex with her. unprotected and everything. I am so crushed. I have always trusted him we have 3 kids, I am at a total loss on what to do. He just got home Friday and when I picked him up at the airport he told me about it. I can tell he is hurt by it as well he has lost 15lbs since I seen him last, and tells me he is sorry and it will never happen again. He is an amazing father and I always thought he was an amazing husband as well. He tells me he will quit his job and never drink again, but I feel as if I will never be able to get past this.