:iagree:One other possibility. We've focused on the porn, but what about his only prior sexual experiences being 50 one night stands? Kind of defines casual sex. No prior relationships, just sex with different people. He's used to something different every time. He's not learned what it takes to make a long-term relationship, or even a short-term relationship, keep the fire going.
Yup, and therein lies the problem not only with SunsetOcean but also so many others now whose learned sexual experience is defined by sport-f**king and obsessive porn consumption/masturbation.
Sexual junk food.
It leaves them spiritually calloused, insensitive, oblivious to the bonding implicit/inherent in sexual intimacy. To the point of impotence.
Wham, Bam, Thank You Ma’am?? Where’s the intimacy in that?
Crippled for love.