I have been with my husband for 9 years and married 6. We got together when I was 16 and him 18 so now we are in our mid twenties and have 2 beautiful boys aged 4 and 7 months. Things have taken. We have always butt heads as he is a Taurus and me a Gemini we are different but always the same on some levels. We are currently in a small 2 bedroom apartment until we close on our first home. Could this have come at a worse time? So we have been on edge. Since out second some was born we have stopped sleeping in the same bed, we spend zero time together. He works and I don't. By the time he gets home we are both tired. I have let my appearance go a bit but that's easily manageable. I have to simply try and take off the baby weight. He told me tonight he doesn't know if he wants in this marriage. That he wants to see what else is out there, what it would be like to sleep with other women as we meet so young our experience is very limited. I'm heartbroken. Yes, it's been hard and things have changed but I feel marriage is a job you have to work at and we have simply stopped but we can make it work. But now all I will be able to think about is him cheating or not emotionally being in this marriage. I don't currently work so I don't even know how I would handle being a single mom to 2 boys as I would have them all but every other weekend if this happened. I just don't know how to handle this. Any advice?