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Let's see what you make of this. There is a guy a "friend" of my wife's. He's "Tyler" from my "How I Got Here" thread. He plays a popular word game with my wife and M-I-L on FB. The three started playing this game on FB b4 I singed up for an account. Around this time he was also taking too many liberties chatting her up whenever he felt like it. I knew what was coming next, so I told her that there would be NO one to one gaming with the OS. Sure enough about a month later he started a one on one game with my W. So I told her to delete it. She did. No problem. Over the next few months wife and I by have alot of deep talks about boundaries. We come to an understanding.
About a year and a half later (three weeks ago), he starts another game with her. I wasn't impressed. She hadn't known that he'd done it. So first thing in the morning, I tell her to delete it. She says ok, she also says the next time I see something like that, I can delete it myself if I want to...she doesn't mind.
Two days later he starts another game with her, and I delete it myself this time. I don't even bother telling her because she said she didn't care. So he messages her asking her why she won't play with him. He gets his wife to ask her why she won't play with him!!! She reads these messages and she is like WTF? I tell her what I did the night b4 and ask her "Do you want to explain it to them or should I?" She asked if I would mind doing it as I can articulate our position better. So I send both Tyler and his wife a message that went something like this:
About a year and a half later (three weeks ago), he starts another game with her. I wasn't impressed. She hadn't known that he'd done it. So first thing in the morning, I tell her to delete it. She says ok, she also says the next time I see something like that, I can delete it myself if I want to...she doesn't mind.
Two days later he starts another game with her, and I delete it myself this time. I don't even bother telling her because she said she didn't care. So he messages her asking her why she won't play with him. He gets his wife to ask her why she won't play with him!!! She reads these messages and she is like WTF? I tell her what I did the night b4 and ask her "Do you want to explain it to them or should I?" She asked if I would mind doing it as I can articulate our position better. So I send both Tyler and his wife a message that went something like this: