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I have been dating this guy for about a month now but we have known each other for a few years. We work within blocks of each other and live within a couple miles of each other. We see each other about 4-5 times a week. Sometimes it's just for lunch and other times it can be hours at a time. We have been intimate.
The other night after spending the entire day together playing Putt Putt and shooting pool we were lying in bed and he said, "I am soooo comfortable". I asked something to the effect of him having enough blankets and pillows. He said, "No, that's not what I meant. I mean that I am so comfortable with you. When I first met you I didn't think it would be much more than us just hanging out and having a few laughs. I like you more than I thought I would. I'm very comfortable.....but that scares me".
I just said that I'm glad he was comfortable around me because I felt the same way with him. Then I shut the conversation down. But what I really wanted to say was, "You are scared of being comfortable? Can you please explain to me what that freaking means???". But I kept my mouth shut.
When I heard this "I'm scared" crap before it just signified the beginning of the end.
Menz and womenz -- what does this mean? I have been "scared" about feelings before too but I didn't run from them. I embraced them. If he runs then does that mean his "scared" feeling is a copout?
The other night after spending the entire day together playing Putt Putt and shooting pool we were lying in bed and he said, "I am soooo comfortable". I asked something to the effect of him having enough blankets and pillows. He said, "No, that's not what I meant. I mean that I am so comfortable with you. When I first met you I didn't think it would be much more than us just hanging out and having a few laughs. I like you more than I thought I would. I'm very comfortable.....but that scares me".
I just said that I'm glad he was comfortable around me because I felt the same way with him. Then I shut the conversation down. But what I really wanted to say was, "You are scared of being comfortable? Can you please explain to me what that freaking means???". But I kept my mouth shut.
When I heard this "I'm scared" crap before it just signified the beginning of the end.
Menz and womenz -- what does this mean? I have been "scared" about feelings before too but I didn't run from them. I embraced them. If he runs then does that mean his "scared" feeling is a copout?