Scratching my head, here...
H bought me the Hitachi Magic Wand for valentines day last year.
We don't use toys everytime we have sex, but I do enjoy using them because it is the easiest and most efficient way for me to O during sex. I cannot O through PIV only and it takes a loooong time (like 30 mins, no joke ) for me to O with manual stimulation during PIV sex. I can O fairly easily thru oral.
Sometimes, when I know its gotta be a quickie (we have two kids, privacy is sometimes limited) I will bring out the wand. The wand is the only way I am able to time my O with his (read: not take an insanely long time) and I think its much more enjoyable that way.
He instantly acts pouty about it and says "do we really have to use that thing?"
Which is a turn off.
What gives. He bought the thing for me. I don't use it often - only a hand full of times alone, I prefer to use it with him. Why buy it for me if you didn't want me to bring it out? Is it a blow to the ego? How do I help him get over that?
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H bought me the Hitachi Magic Wand for valentines day last year.
We don't use toys everytime we have sex, but I do enjoy using them because it is the easiest and most efficient way for me to O during sex. I cannot O through PIV only and it takes a loooong time (like 30 mins, no joke ) for me to O with manual stimulation during PIV sex. I can O fairly easily thru oral.
Sometimes, when I know its gotta be a quickie (we have two kids, privacy is sometimes limited) I will bring out the wand. The wand is the only way I am able to time my O with his (read: not take an insanely long time) and I think its much more enjoyable that way.
He instantly acts pouty about it and says "do we really have to use that thing?"
Which is a turn off.
What gives. He bought the thing for me. I don't use it often - only a hand full of times alone, I prefer to use it with him. Why buy it for me if you didn't want me to bring it out? Is it a blow to the ego? How do I help him get over that?
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