You can't fix your marriage while he is involved with another woman.
If you try, it'll be a waste of your energy. You'll end up pouring everything you've got into trying to convince him to care for you, and that pursuing will just push him further away.
So what can you do?
You can work on yourself -- go to individual counseling, find 1 good friend to confide in, exercise, take up a new hobby, learn self-calming techniques (maybe take a yoga class to learn to quiet your mind).
Are you two still living under the same roof? How intertwined are your finances?
If you try, it'll be a waste of your energy. You'll end up pouring everything you've got into trying to convince him to care for you, and that pursuing will just push him further away.
So what can you do?
You can work on yourself -- go to individual counseling, find 1 good friend to confide in, exercise, take up a new hobby, learn self-calming techniques (maybe take a yoga class to learn to quiet your mind).
Are you two still living under the same roof? How intertwined are your finances?