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When I was dating (b.m. = before marriage) I took the approach with girls I really cared about, that I wanted to know they were honest. I would put on my P.I. (private investigator) hat and follow up on things they said. If they said they had class X at school, I would go to that class and see if they showed up for the class, or if the girl said she worked at Y, I'd go there and find her working there. After a while, when everything she said matched, I knew I didn't have to worry or snoop around to verify the trust I had placed in that girl.

My wife has traveled extensively over the past 10 years doing trade shows and teaching workshops. Most of the attendees are Men. I have never worried for 1 second about her there. I take the attitude that if some other guy is insane enough to tangle with her, then it's his own damned fault if he dares to get too close to her.
 
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